A Mother’s Tears, A Son’s Conversion: The Mother and Son Saints — St. Monica and St. Augustine

Having a son saint is a great blessing; but how much more inspiring it is when that son’s journey is intertwined with his mother’s?

As we celebrate this Archdiocesan Jubilee of Families, let us take a moment to reflect on the stories of the mother and son saints, St. Monica and St. Augustine, who serve as powerful reminders of how unwavering faith and perseverance can lead to profound transformation.

St. Monica was a mother of three children. After the premature death of her husband, she dedicated her life to raising them. She persevered in the face of many difficulties. Her greatest desire was for her children to follow Christ. Among them, her son Augustine proved to be the most challenging.

St. Augustine did not easily come to embrace the Christian faith. As a child, he was rebellious and difficult. In his youth and early adulthood, he rejected Christianity altogether, becoming a skeptic and living a worldly life that caused Monica much grief.

Nevertheless, St. Monica remained steadfast—offering countless prayers and tears on behalf of her wayward son.

St. Augustine was a brilliant scholar who received a top-tier education. In 383, he founded a school of rhetoric in Rome, but dissatisfaction soon led him to Milan.

There, he encountered Bishop Ambrose, a powerful orator known not for flattery or manipulation but for his unwavering commitment to truth. Unlike others in public life, Ambrose’s integrity left a deep impression on Augustine and became a pivotal influence in his gradual conversion.

Finally, on Easter Sunday in 387, Augustine was baptized by Ambrose. Soon after, Monica died peacefully, having seen her deepest prayer answered. Before her death, she told her son: 

“I do not know what there is now left for me to do or why I am still here. All I wished to live for was that I might see you a Catholic and a child of heaven.”

Augustine later acknowledged that it was through his mother’s prayers and tears that he found his way to faith.

Today, St. Augustine is venerated as a Doctor of the Church, and St. Monica is honored as the patron saint of mothers, a model of faithful perseverance and prayer.

Let us commend youth to the Virgin Mother of God so that, like Augustine, they may always strive for the fullness of Truth and Love which is Christ: he alone can satisfy the deepest desires of the human heart.